Things You Generally Fought With Siblings
Fights between siblings are inevitable. They just love to fight over nothing, and the best part of these fights are these fights can go to any extent whatsoever.
One of the primary reasons for a genuine fight could be frustration. For this, you need to put yourself in your brother’s or sister’s shoes if they are frustrating you. Frustration is something that could be vindictive in many cases, and therefore, it becomes essential to know the root cause of frustration and act accordingly.
Why Do Siblings Fight?
Before you fight, think about the repercussions, especially when your sibling is frustrated or disturbed. And at that very moment, you might find the answer to this question as well.
Siblings can fight for many reasons or honestly for no reason. Ahaa,- Tell me, do you really need any reason to fight your sibling? Like really? Sometimes you do, but not very often. However, they might get on each other’s nerves because they are caged together, or they might fight to seek their parent’s attention. In childhood, siblings might fit because they are still learning that phase of life and learning how to share, resolve conflicts, or deal with differences of opinion.
Reasons could differ but, fights among siblings is something imperative. In this post, we will try to figure out five general reasons that may lead to a fight (not a brawl) between siblings.
Who Will Eat The Last Piece Of The Pie?
While at home or go out for dining, the last piece of the food or any particular dish could be a reason that can lead to a fight between siblings.
Whether you are the elder or the younger one among the siblings, the satisfaction of having the last piece or last bite is improbable. If you are the elder one, you won’t pity your younger one for eating that last piece, rather all your attention would be to secure a psychological victory on your younger sibling by eating that final piece of the dish. Yes, we all can relate to this.
When Your Sibling Borrowed Clothes Without Your Consent
Yes, being the elder siblings, this act always made us furious and annoyed. Our parents are always looking to share our clothes with our younger sibling (without any gender biasedness), and trust me – this used to annoy me a lot.
Being the elder one, you have to make such sacrifices and obey your parents, but this never restricted you from fighting with your younger one. These fights used to be tantalizing and a bit bland because these fights couldn’t be fought or expressed in front of your parents. Pheww- A daunting task.
Whose Turn It Was To Use The Computer
A computer system was one of the most fascinating gadgets of the late 90s and early 2000s. Remember the time when you used to get enthralled playing Pinball, NFS (The old version) and other games without any hindrances. We used to spend hours playing all our loveable games on weekends.
While using the computer system for hours, the only unwanted disturbance was created by your sibling. The annoyance created at the time was belligerent, and you couldn’t do anything but fight with him/her.
Who Was Better At Video Games
Super Mario, Contra, Bomberman, Beyblade, Dragon Ball Z, etc. all of us were prone to these fantastic games. We used to play these games for fun, but while competing with siblings, these games were more than just fun.
The elder sibling always tends to dominate their younger siblings, and this is something natural. If you are the elder one, you would never want to get defeated by your younger siblings, neither in a video game nor in any other competition whatsoever, because this may lead to a chronic fight.
Who Was A Better Kid
The sense of being popular and favorite is perhaps the best feeling.- This is something that got instigated in every person right from their childhood.- This may not be similar to a competition, but competing for the rightful place for the favorite tag is evident.
Yes, every child is the same for their parents, but personally, every child wants to be the primary one for their parents among the siblings. So, they might get jealous and end up fighting for the same.
Time to wrap up:
No matter how much they fight, but the bond siblings share, is something immaculate. But when all’s done and dusted, no matter how much you fought, most of us would agree we’d do anything for our siblings.
If you could relate to some of these fights we have mentioned above, let us know in the comments section. And also, let us know what other reasons you encountered to fight with your sibling.